Wife or mistress? Why so long meeting with his mistress? Just because a meeting with the mistresses that are rare and they do not commit … And his wife – a daily view of each other, the permanent way of life, the challenges that gradually extinguish the fire passionate … I am not a conservative and not reactionary, not at all. Do not live the principles of morality and outdated bedrock of psychology. I like new things happening in the world, how humanity is changing people’s attitudes, their spiritual world, the approach to the family and relations …
Why do we marry, or marry? Trite, for procreation, family formation. As a rule, primordium of the family itself is in three areas: love, or the need for calculation (an unexpected pregnancy). The words “I would love to Holly,” “We will live long and happy life and die together” to cause a smile. This can not understand young girls and young boys. But adults know …
There is nothing eternal, neither the engine, no love, no passion, nothing tangible. It is clear that young people all think in pink, they are the parent of the drum experience, their attitudes and mistakes. The young prince, and let money, and at once, and preferably forever. Why is this happening? Yes, because there is no experience, no mind you look closely, appreciate and understand the adult world with the eternal routine work, child maintenance, apartments, everyday life …
And relationships. There is a short time to love, no doubt, though again this is often in love is nothing, as usual spermatokoz in both sexes. Love goes (God forbid) in Love, Passion, Understanding … And who can say how long it will last? Only stubborn or does not know the person does not understand the difference between MEET and live together … This is absolutely incompatible categories of our lives, as the young, and adults …
Yes, after reading several articles on adultery and family life, I want to express their thoughts. According to some people, if passed heat and passion, if the legs and face are no longer worried about his beloved, hewing to everything and fly to the new Passion, falling in love, to tremble, to suffer from love. I wonder how many times in life – 2, 5, 10 …? If you think about it, analyze … Why so long meeting with his mistress? Just because a meeting with the mistresses that are rare and they do not commit …
Met, table, dishes, candles, love … and not always in the morning you see your favorite person – the family is at home, you need to measure to know … Again, days and weeks, separations, flour and a thirst for a meeting … and the madness, not like anything in this world where everyone gives as much heat and energy that will be enough for a nuclear power plant! …
And the family – the daily view of each other, the permanent way of life, the challenges that gradually extinguish passionate fire. And my dear, well, tell me, how many can take “heat”? Well, just look at the friends and acquaintances. Long. And after 10-15 years alone, to say nothing of those who lived for 20 Th and more …
It’s not what his wife – a gray mouse in a dirty robe and with a fat tail on the head. The habit of time and life together … and if the wife pay attention to men, but her husband does not want, it does not mean it’s gray mouse … Gone are feeling, but we have a strong relationship, respect and duty to the children …
Meet it, for example, a young beauty, feelings and all that … Let the years. But this is OCCASIONALLY AND WITHOUT OBLIGATION. I am one hundred percent, they would go, the ending is inevitable … because that habit, because it turns out there is no consensus in the views on family, farming … irritation at the “there are not boxes, it does not, my self, prepare what you want” … Is not it …? And a couple of years again fall in love, marry and divorce again …?
Hard to find the ideal in life, and not his … A mistress or lover … so rejoice, love, give feelings … And while it is at a distance and not on a daily basis, everything will be fine …
P / S I do not pretend for an Oscar for his thoughts … Every since her … But life often is the case. Seen, know and do not blame … One of my friend behind a glass was asked: “Are not you tired of for 21-Year went to your family life?” … He said: “I do not think about it, in our family have something to do besides sex. And if I need now is not the problem … “